I wanted to share this yesterday over on Black n’ Bougie but since my job refuses to let me be great in commenting and I got home too late after hanging out with hubs I decided to bring this little scenario over to my joint. Follow along with me now…….
When Myron and I started dating and became pretty serious (seriously discussing marriage), we both did some maintenance on our FB pages. We both defriended prior ex-BFs, ex-GFs, ex-FwBs and his case he defriended his ex-wife. They have no kids together and no other ties so I asked him to let her make it. He didn’t do it callously either. He took the time to send her an inbox explaining why he was doing it. Of course, she has to reply back with the obligatory “Are you sure?” and “I just want you to be happy” fake concern. *insert eye roll here*
So after that we get engaged, time passes by then we get married. Life goes on, right??
So can someone out there explain to me, that after nearly 8 months of us being married, she sent him a friend request?????
Myron was baffled. He was like I told her over a year and a half ago why I was defriending her and I didn’t even have to do that.
Well TIH is nosy, so I told him to inbox her. He did and asked her what did she want because she knew that he wouldn’t be accepting her request and his wife wouldn’t like it. She replied back: LOL!! Well I hope all is well with you guys. That was it.
*TIH scratches head*
I don’t understand people. She knew that wasn’t going to fly so I guess she was just fishing around. But why??? Did she think our marriage had gone bad that quick??? I guess the world will never know.
Do ya’ll keep up socially with ex-S/Os or ex-spouses?? What do ya’ll think the ex-wife was thinking (or smoking)??