Shamelessly stolt from over at Shan and Mike’s comment section is this question:
Are you an introvert or extrovert and how does that affect your relationship?
If you haven’t been able to tell, I am an extrovert. (Ya think?) I am married to an extrovert. It works pretty well. In fact, marrying someone who was extroverted and could mix well in social settings was one of my husband’s requirements. To him, it’s the ultimate downer be with someone who you are either ashamed to be out in public with cause they don’t know how to act (example: our best man’s girlfriend who got Moscato wasted at our wedding) or get out in public and act like they have a stick up their asses because they are standoffish.
I have also dated someone who was introverted and it was a bit of a chore. He wasn’t rude, but he was painfully shy. I can’t be the life of the party for me and for YOU as well. Plus with a more introverted person, I felt like I had to keep checking on him to make sure he was OK and not off the corner somewhere alone.
I think me and hubs are well suited for each other in that way because we have similar type personalities. His sense of humor is a bit crude sometimes, but he’s a dude and you know how men like to cut up. It works for us and we’re good.
What about you? Are you an introvert? Extrovert, perhaps?? What type did you marry or do you prefer to date??