Hubs and I went for a drink after work on Friday. There is a dive bar, about 10 minutes from the house that we go to called Nick’s Place. Nick’s Place isn’t much to look at on the inside, but has cheap good drinks and surprisingly good food. (I recommend the fish tacos and the calzone.) THey also have the computerized bar games that hubs likes to play. I kicked his ass in Skeeball this time!
So while we were hanging out, I decided to give my friend A a call to come and hang out. A and her boyfriend T, had just gotten home from Lowe’s but made the trek from Fresno to come and hang out with us in the city.
We started out at the bar listening to T’s tales of horror from working at the nursing home. (He’s in nursing school and working at the home is part of his clinical training.) Let’s just say I learned more about anal fissures and geriatric orgasms than I EVER want to hear about again in life!
But I digress..
We moved to a table and started talking about relationships. More specifically, we talked about how men are totally oblivious to other women trying to holla at them, even when the chicks are blantant with it. A talked about how women who never paid a man attention before, will suddenly be all in his face when they find out that man has a girlfriend. I talked about how almost every time Myron goes to the store some chick is skinning and grinning in his face or lowkey trying to holla. And both A and I were simply amazed that these grown ass men were seemingly clueless about it all.
So here was the guys theory: When a man is on the hunt, his senses are at an all time high and he’s in big game hunting mode so he is quick to notice w hen there is interest from the opposite sex. However, when the hunter has caught his prey (o_O) and is satisfied, then the hunt is over and the senses become dulled. (So, chicks are prey now?? LOL!)
A and I collectively gave them both a deep long sigh and rolled our eyes. The discussion then descended into a noisy, slightly drunken debate which didn’t end until we wrapped up our night around 11PM.
But that friendly, spirited discussion led to today’s blog post. What say you about the guys theory?? Do you think it’s some BS?? Or are there some grains of truth in there??
Holla at me in the comments.