Listen to her, she’s got some years and 2 kids in the game: http://nineteen69.wordpress.com/2011/10/25/the-point-of-it-all/
And because no good deed EVER goes unpunished, the follow-up: http://nineteen69.wordpress.com/2011/10/27/i-aint-no-expert/
Class is now in session, Nineteen Sixty-Nine is your instructor.
